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Thanksgiving Dinner, Minus The Bloat

In my nearly seven years of eating clean, doing DDPYOGA, and in the process, dropping 180 unwanted pounds, I’ve learned a thing or two about food. Most importantly, it’s crucial to still enjoy it.  I do. How else could I have made it this far?  But balance is equally critical because, again, I ask:  how could I have made it this far? In my former life, I was either dieting or overeating. No middle ground. None.

Today, it is on a patch of fertile middle ground where I have pitched my tent. And right next to it I’ve planted a massive victory flag that waves triumphantly in the wind.  And since the New Me is here to stay, I’ve had to learn the fine art of choosing my battles, or in this case, simple carbs.  In other words, I’ve got to know when to hold ’em and know when to fold ’em. I have every intention of making Thanksgiving a gastronomic feast. I eat considerably more and considerably heavier on this day.  Why wreck the glory of it by inserting a dish or two that would be better suited at a spa?  That said, I don’t go wild either.

Case in point, the sample menu below.  It’s simple, yet rich. And because of that, I’ve chosen a clean green to cleanse the palate of all the fat and starch that’ll be gliding down the gullet that day.  I used to be enamored with the green bean casserole made with canned mushroom soup. Nowadays I fare better with a simple dish of sauteed string beans, a little olive oil, and a few splashes of lemon topped with slivered almonds. Every dish on here is gluten-free and mostly dairy-free.  I confess to baking and cooking on special occasions with heavy cream.  As much as I adore coconut milk, I don’t want the taste of it in mashed potatoes or creamed onions.  If heavy cream is off the list for you, substitute with a vegan creamer.

The cranberry sauce is made from whole berries and no white sugar.  It’s another delicious way to give the palate something else to grab onto and also cut through the gravy and butter. This may look like a small menu, but it’s simply reflective of my preferences.  I’ve done the 15-item Thanksgiving menus in years past and discovered we tend to gravitate to five or so favorites.  A tight list of all-time faves saves time, money, and sanity.

 

A CLEAN AND COMFORTING THANKSGIVING MENU

Turkey with Gravy

Gluten-Free Stuffing

Mashed Potatoes

Green Beans Almondine

Homemade Cranberry Sauce

Optional:  Gluten-Free rolls, biscuits, or popovers

Dessert: Coconut Cherry Cobbler or Gluten-Free Pumpkin Pie

 

Below are recipes for some of the above.  As for the mashed potatoes, my secret is, boiling quartered potatoes in chicken stock instead of water. When they’re soft and fork-tender, drain liquid and add this delicious elixir known as melted butter and warm (NOT cold) heavy cream in increments as you blend with electric beater.  Salt and pepper to taste. As I openly admit, I use heavy cream (not milk) on special occasions.  Sometimes there’s just no other viable substitute.

 

Cranberry Sauce A La Helen Gurley Brown

Cosmopolitan magazine…circa 1988. It’s the last place I ever thought I’d find a usable recipe. But I did. And it was so simple, I committed it to memory in the confines of that sweat bath of a studio apartment I rented on the upper west side that summer.

There’s no sugar in this, which is amazing for a cranberry recipe. Use it any way you like: in yogurt, oatmeal, on ice cream, waffles. No rules. Except one: don’t under any circumstances leave the stove while this is simmering. You haven’t really cleaned until you’ve cleaned molten cranberry sauce off a burner. I’ve named this concoction in honor of the woman who (on some level) must have given it the green light:

Ingredients:

1 bag fresh cranberries

1 can frozen grape juice concentrate (100% juice)

Instructions:

Place both ingredients in a sauce pan on medium heat and cover. Cook about 5-10 minutes, or until it begins to simmer. Uncover and turn heat to medium-low. Let simmer for about 30 minutes, stirring occasionally. Let cool before serving or storing. Keeps for several weeks in the refrigerator. Months if frozen.

 

Stacey’s G-Free Stuffing

Ingredients:

1 loaf gluten-free white bread, slices left uncovered overnight to harden (some gf breads are cardboard, and in this case, that’s an asset!)

1 bunch celery

2 large onions

Chicken stock (at least a quart)

Butter or olive oil

Bell Seasoning (or whatever you have: thyme, sage, oregano, rosemary)

Salt and Pepper to taste

Instructions:

Heat butter or olive oil in large cooking pot. Dice vegetables in a food processor until fine. Add to pot, sprinkle with spices and stir to coat the vegetables. Cook until translucent or just starting to brown. While vegetables are cooking, dice the bread into cubes and preheat oven to 350. Spray a large casserole with non-stick cooking spray.

Pour diced bread into pot and add heated chicken stock. (I found that g-free bread absorbs a lot of liquid so don’t hold back) Mix thoroughly and transfer to casserole. The stuffing shouldn’t look dry. If you can’t see any liquid, add some more (unless you like dry stuffing). I added enough liquid so it filled the casserole dish almost halfway. Cover and bake for about 30 minutes.

From experience I can say, it’s great to be able to enjoy stuffing and not feel sedated and bloated.

 

Chef Bill’s Gluten-Free Gravy

Chef’s note: for those who like their gravy very thick, have at least two ‘gravy thickeners’ on hand. Recipe: approximately 1 tablespoon of corn starch or potato starch mixed with 1/8 stick of butter or 1 tablespoon of oil, and rolled between your palms until it becomes a ball. Refrigerate until ready to use. If your gravy doesn’t come out as thick as you desire, whisk 1 chilled ball at a time into the gravy until desired thickness is achieved.

Gravy ingredients

Note: you can either use turkey stock made from boiling parts, or have two quarts of boxed turkey stock on hand and heated.

Approximately four pounds of smoked turkey parts, available at most gourmet grocery stores or smokehouses

Half-stick of unsalted butter or 3 tablespoons olive oil

3 generous tablespoons of corn or potato starch

11/2 ounces brandy or cognac

1 tablespoon browning sauce such as Gravy Master or Kitchen Bouquet

1 tablespoon chopped thyme

Salt and pepper to taste

Instructions:

Boil the turkey parts boiled uncovered in about a gallon of water with an onion and carrot until water is reduced to about half (about two hours). Remove turkey parts from liquid and strain through a colander. Chef’s note: meat from turkey parts may be removed, chopped and added to gravy, or put in the roasting pan with turkey for extra parts.

In a large Dutch oven, heavy sauce pan, or wok, melt butter (or heat oil) over medium-high heat, then whisk the potato or corn starch until it becomes a roux (thick, creamy paste). When roux begins to bubble, turn the heat down to medium. Slowly ladle in warm stock and whisk briskly. Keep ladling and whisking until stock is depleted and the gravy thickens. If stock is depleted and gravy is not to desired thickness, see chef’s note above.

Just prior to serving, whisk in the browning sauce, cognac, thyme, salt, and pepper. Serve immediately.

 

Cauliflower-Scallion Puree

Ingredients:

1 bag frozen cauliflower florets

1/3 cup tofu sour cream or goat’s milk yogurt

1 bunch scallions, rinsed and chopped

Salt to taste

Instructions:

Place cauliflower in large sauce pan. Add enough water to just cover bottom of the pan (essentially you’ll be steaming the vegetables). Sprinkle with salt. Add chopped scallions, sprinkle with a little more salt. Cook covered over medium-high heat until water reaches a boil, then turn heat back to medium and continue cooking for another 10 minutes, or until cauliflower is fork-tender. Turn heat off and sour cream or yogurt. Cover and let the heat from the vegetables work through it for a few minutes. Then puree everything with an immersion blender or in a food processor.

 

Gluten-Free Popovers

Ingredients:

2 cups Namaste all-purpose baking mix

1/4 teaspoon xanthan gum

1 teaspoon salt

2 ½ cups milk (unsweetened almond or coconut) at room temperature

5 large eggs at room temperature

2 tablespoons butter, melted

Instructions:

Preheat oven to 425. Spray muffin tins or popover tins with non-stick cooking spray and place in the oven for at least 10 minutes while mixing batter.

Place all ingredients in a large blender or Vitamix. Blend for 10 seconds and no more (it’s important not to overbeat the eggs or the popovers won’t rise).

Carefully remove hot pan from oven. Ladle or pour batter into muffin cups till cup is ¾ full. Bake for 25 minutes then reduce heat to 350 and bake for another 10 minutes. Popovers should be golden brown. Serve immediately.

Light and delicious!

Light and delicious!

 

Dessert

Given the nature of the meal, I prefer lighter desserts on this occasion.  When I’m smack in the middle of digesting copious amounts of turkey and carbs is not the ideal time to send down a slice of flourless chocolate cake as a chaser. Sometimes I’m too full for a dessert, but if you’re big on it, you could give a Crustless Pumpkin Pie, or Fruit Cobbler a go.  Served with a small scoop of Almond or Coconut-milk based ice cream and you’ve got a dazzler.  Often at the end of any dinner, if I’m truly craving a sweet, I’ll have a small piece of dark chocolate and let it melt slowly in my mouth.  It totally does the trick.  Every time.  But if you’re of the belief that a pie just isn’t a pie without a crust, below is a recipe for a gluten-free pie crust, courtesy of Team DDPYOGA member Diane Bender, who adapted it from a Libby’s Pumpkin Pie mix label.

Gluten-Free Pie Crust

Ingredients:

1 cup white rice flour

1/2 cup potato starch

1/2 cup tapioca flour

1/4 teaspoon salt

6 tablespoons cold butter, cut into small pieces

1 large egg, beaten

1 tablespoon apple cider or white vinegar

3 to 4 tablespoons ice water

Instructions:

Combine rice flour, potato starch, tapioca flour and salt in medium bowl. Cut in butter with pastry blender or two knives until mixture is crumbly. Form well in center. Add egg and vinegar; stir gently with a fork until just blended. Sprinkle with water; blend together with a fork and clean hands until mixture just holds together and forms a ball. (Be careful not to add too much water as dough will be hard to roll.)

Shape dough into ball and divide in half. Cover one half with plastic wrap; set aside. Place remaining half on lightly floured (use rice flour) sheet of wax paper. Top with additional piece of wax paper. Roll out dough to 1/8-inch thickness. Remove top sheet of wax paper and invert dough into 9-inch deep-dish (4-cup volume) pie plate. Slowly peel away wax paper. Trim excess crust. Turn edge under; crimp as desired. Repeat with remaining half.

 

Cherry-Coconut Cobbler

Filling

1 22-ounce jar or can of cherry pie filling or the frozen berry equivalent (I prefer the sugar-free pie filling)

1/2 cup grapefruit juice

1 tablespoon lemon juice

Crust

2 1/2 cups water

1 cup cornmeal

2 teaspoons olive oil

1 teaspoon salt

1/4 cup sugar

2 teaspoons vanilla

1/2 cup coconut powder or unsweetened shredded coconut

Preheat oven to 330

Spray an 8 x 10 baking pan with cooking spray and set aside

Bring water to a boil and add cornmeal, salt, sugar, vanilla, and oil and whisk vigorously. Reduce heat to low and continue whisking until mixture is thick.  Turn heat off and whisk in coconut. The cornmeal should be porridge consistency but not runny. If too thick, add a bit of hot water.

Pour fruit into baking pan. Drizzle the two juices over the fruit and mix slightly so it’s evenly distributed. With a rubber spatula, drop cornmeal bit by bit on top of the fruit and spread slightly so it’s an even crust.  Bake for 35 minutes.  Serve hot.

 

Sparkling Clean White Russian

And then there’s the other option after a voluptuous menu:  a liquid dessert. Here is one Chef Bill invented recently, after deciding that I’d been deprived of White Russians long enough. No holiday is complete without a little libation – enjoy!

Ingredients:

6 ounces of unsweetened Vanilla Almond Milk

1 ounce vodka

1 ounce Godiva Liqueur or Kahlua

A dash of cocoa powder

Pour all ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice.  Serve strained or on the rocks.

 

 

Sweet Victory: My Dessert Cookbook is OUT!

It’s official: backsliding into oblivion is no longer a given this holiday season.  Sure, there will be desserts galore…but now,  you can see to it that at least some of them are clean.

Raspberry Cloud Cake

Raspberry Cloud Cake

The holidays are part of the reason I wrote “Sweet Comfort, Converging Nutritious with Delicious: 44 Fabulously Clean Dessert Recipes.” By clean, I mean they’re gluten-free, cow-dairy-free, and low in sugar. I’ve also given options for Stevia or Monk Fruit for those who choose to or must live a sugar-free life.

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Sorry, there’s no clean version of sugar cookies in the book, mostly because I’m just not patient and methodical enough for the cookie cutter process…but there are some delicious takes on classics such as Carrot Cake, Banana Cream Pie, Low-Carb Pancakes (one of my favorite unconventional desserts), and Peanut Butter Cookies. The latter are more on the decadent side, even if they are gluten-free and cow-dairy-free. But I deliberately made the book a spectrum of decadence. Some desserts are appropriate for splurges and special occasions. Others, such as Dos Leches Cake, Lemon Squares, and Mint Chip Pudding are crafted with super-clean ingredients plus a few superfoods thrown in for extra sustaining power.

So there it is in a nutshell: the first of my companion books to “Clean Comfort: Finding Peace, Balance, and My Perfect Weight.” If you’re looking for the memoir part of my transformation story, definitely check this first book out.  It also has 75+ clean appetizers, entrees, side dishes, and desserts. Meanwhile, I’m gearing up for my first Christmas party (it’s never too early!) and plan on bringing a clean twist on the classic ginger bread topped with whipped cream. This year, I’ll be wowing the crowd with gluten-free molasses cake (a denser, more intense version of a spice cake) topped with coconut whipped cream.  Look Ma, no hangover!  It’s also a great post-workout snack.

Have a delicious rest of 2015 everyone!

Dos Leches Cake

Dos Leches Cake

Apple Caramel Cake

Apple Caramel Cake

Triple-Layer Carrot Cake

Triple-Layer Carrot Cake

It’s Schleptemer – Take The Challenge!

Who’s ready for the Schleptember Challenge?

Now, I know the Webster dictionary of Schlep (Yiddish in origin) is to haul or carry something in a tedious way.  That’s not the look we’re going for.  Here’s the proposal: Place extra focus this month on hauling yourself on foot rather than driving, or being sedentary. It’s a great complement to DDPYOGA or any other form of working out you’re already engaged in.  Not a big revelation that Americans are some of the most sedentary people on earth thanks to suburban sprawl, remote controls, reclining chairs and other conveniences that keep us inert.

No need for a step-counter for this, but if you have one – use it! Make a commitment this month to park further away from the grocery store, walk to a destination instead of driving, head for the stairwell of a building rather than the elevator…you get the idea.

When I lived in Amsterdam one summer I dropped 12 pounds without trying.  That’s because Europeans inherently have more activity built into their lifestyle. You walk to grocery shop or to a cafe, make the 3-block journey to hop the tram, and then walk some more once you’re at your destination. And something that was unmistakable about Amsterdam:  its inhabitants were as a whole, more vibrant, happy, and patient than the masses of people I was accustomed to while mingling with in public back in the states.  I know there are other factors that culturally add up to increased happiness, but clearly, regular movement helps both the body and soul.  So, who’s with me?

While the weather’s still summery and before the snow starts falling, I’ve been taking 50-minute walks each morning. It not only energizes me and eradicates the morning cobwebs from my body and brain, it puts me ahead of the curve metabolically. And I feel great afterwards.  Happy Schleptember Everyone!

 

Walking

The Art Of The Power-Breakfast

As deep as my adoration of sunny side up eggs is, variety is the spice of life.  This morning, my palate was calling for flavors and textures beyond that of creamy egg yolks and sauteed vegetables.  I love carbs in the morning and it’s usually the fibrous, whole grain variety I go for, though I’m the first to admit that a stack of gluten-free pancakes with real syrup and butter is a beautiful thing. (More on that a.m. indulgence when the cold weather and fall foliage comes to my neighborhood).

It had been way too long since my last visit to the bag of Bob’s Red Mill Gluten-Free Steel Cut Oats in my cupboard, but it’s August and a steaming bowl of hot cereal wasn’t in the cards, so I took a different route. My cravings and pantry inventory conspired to make the perfect breakfast parfait.

If soaked overnight, bullet-hard steel cut oats soften perfectly. Since the refrigerator still had a huge haul from blueberry picking last week, I decided to puree a batch and simmer it down to a reduction. In went the oats and some shredded coconut to soak overnight. In the morning, I added goat milk yogurt. (When I say I’m dairy-free it’s the cow products I lay off of.  Sheep and goat products agree with me just fine, but I only eat them about twice a week). The result was a fabulous breakfast loaded with flavor, complex carbs, fiber, and vitamins…plus a little calcium and protein. Perfect before a workout.  And may I say…Thank GOD for Bob’s Red Mill.  Their gluten-free products are reasonably priced and fantastic!

BlueBerryParfait

 

Blueberry Breakfast Parfait

Serves 1

2 cups fresh or frozen blueberries

1/4 cup Bob’s Red Mill Gluten-Free Steel Cut Oats

1/4 cup Bob’s Red Mill Flaked Unsweetened Coconut

1/2 cup goat’s milk yogurt (almond or coconut yogurt may be used)

 

Puree blueberries in a food processor until berries are liquidy but still a little chunky. Place in a saucepan and simmer on low heat uncovered for 30 minutes, stirring occasionally.  The berries should be liquidy but with a little thickness. Turn off heat and add oatmeal and coconut, stirring thoroughly.  Cover and let sit overnight.  In the morning add goat yogurt and stir until blended. Serve immediately.

Note – Sweetening with a tablespoon of honey or coconut palm nectar is optional, I like tasting the fruit and coconut unobstructed so I left if out. 

Learning To Be Imperfectly OK

There was something peculiar about Carla as she approached me from across the room. Her gait was unsteady and she looked confused as she navigated the crowded room of the home where we’d gathered to sit Shiva. When Carla stepped in to greet me the smell of alcohol was overwhelming. Encountering someone so heavily intoxicated at a pubic bereavement service was a first, so I braced myself. “You’ve done a great job with the weight loss, Stacey, “ she slurred. “But your ass is really big…you’ve still got a fat ass.” I stood in horrified silence with the friend I’d been conversing with. We were both too stunned to speak as Carla stumbled away, alcohol fumes trailing her departure like a caustic blast of dragon’s breath.

Carla was hammered. But that didn’t make her proclamation go down any easier. I could feel the mercury of outrage rising up in me. But I was there to comfort and support a grieving family who are dear friends of mine. It would not have been the time to yank Carla by the throat to draw her perilously near to me so I could hiss through clenched teeth that she was being inappropriate. Instead, I took a deep breath, and let Carla make her way around the room like a deranged bag lady.

My history with absorbing bigoted, vitriolic remarks about my size is long. Being a chubby child meant I was the subject and object of much derisive amusement for the boys who rode my school bus, classmates, girls at summer camp, even babysitters. High school was a frightening and unnurturing place, leaving me emotionally unprepared to deal with life upon graduation, let alone soar on the currents of greatness or some syrupy platitude that the principal recited into the microphone at graduation.

More than half my life was spent bouncing between the extremes of dieting and binge-eating. For 20 years I weighed in excess of 300 pounds. I come from a long line of famine-survivors so my blood pressure and other stats were good, but my energy was non-existent. And I was tired of wearing black stretch leggings everyday.

Stacey Morris on the Mountaintop

 

Six years ago I embarked on a new way of living that had me dropping 180 pounds. I cut out gluten and cow dairy, but I also paid attention to the size of food portions and to the uncomfortable emotions that drove me to overeat in the first place. I started slow, but soon discovered I loved all forms of exercise, including DDPYOGA, distance-walking, and weight lifting.

Preceding the weight loss was lots of inner healing.   Wounded to the core and with no sense of self-worth put in place during my formative years, I began to get irate. I began to question the collective voice that said I wasn’t OK simply because of the size of my body. Ah, I cherish the memory of me, circa age 25, chasing down a ‘gang’ of cowardly teenage boys at the mall who mooed like cows in my direction and rocket-launched names and from a safe distance. How satisfying it was when they scattered like rats as I, snorting mad, stormed over to confront them.

I love having 180 pounds off me and I’m very clear that being a smaller size doesn’t make me a better human being, it simply means I’m freer. Still, I would have thought that the insults and demeaning queries would have ended on that joyful day that I was able to step into a size 8 pair of jeans.

But as Carla so eloquently proved, such a Utopian existence is not the case for a former fat chick. It seems that even the formerly fat aren’t exempt from our culture’s voracious appetite for critiquing. Carla was hardly imparting new information to me. I’m fully aware (despite not having a direct view of it) that my posterior is my largest and most pronounced…asset. And not so much in a Jennefer Lopez kind of way (I wish). Unlike JLo, my derriere is, well, not as tightly wound. I also know lipo-suction is an option. But it’s an option I haven’t taken and I don’t owe apologies for it. Maybe it’s too costly, or that I’m afraid of going under the knife, or the risks outweigh the benefits. Or maybe I’m simply exercising my right to be imperfect.

Even it if means having to field the occasional rude question, such as “what’s your goal weight?” or “have you gained weight?” Yes, someone really asked me that. Point blank. And it was a friend, whom I’ll refer to as Martha.

It’s probably important to note that Martha is obese. And it’s also important to note that my reaction was yet again stunned silence. Martha didn’t just stop at the question; she went on to announce that my arms didn’t look as ‘good’ as they once did. And she was probably right. I’d come out of a six-month injury to my shoulder that curtailed my lifting. OK, so I softened up, but should that green-light scrutiny from others?

As Martha’s question hung in the air, everything went kind of blurry and I vaguely recall excusing myself from the room. It briefly flashed across my mind to lob back a ‘what about your weight?’ retaliation, but I didn’t want to play that game. It would be hypocritical and contrary to my deepest principles. Several weeks later she and I had a frank discussion about the incident via e-mail. I accepted her apology and we’ve returned to good terms, but the dynamic between us has never been the same.

You did good, but not quite good enough is the message I’ve gotten from some during my newfound years of svelteness. So what to do with the Martha’s and Carla’s of the world?

In Carla’s case I chose not to resurrect the incident. It was highly unlikely that she’d remember it anyway. As for Martha, I know from my own character flaws that her disconnection to her obesity and the physical trap she was in prompted her to target someone else. Which is understandable, but no one’s allowed to do that to me anymore.

Here’s the truth that no woman should have to explain: I don’t want to spend the majority of my time and energy pursuing an ideal that’s not realistic for me. Knowing this is as freeing as having the weight off. It leaves me free to do things like write more books, spend time in the kitchen making food for people I love, do a challenging yoga workout, or even learn a new language.

I’ve done enough work on myself weight-wise. I’m happy with where I am. If you find that insufficient, that’s you’re problem. And if you come at me with an insulting remark about my proportions – I’ll be ready this time.

 

See the result!

Being Happy and Healthy is the Best Revenge